After you read the 21 mistakes I’ll give you the solutions…Since using this rule, I now never get those “first text blues” and you if you stick to this rule you won’t either!It will remove her anxiety about texting you the next day and means you can start comfort building a lot easier. Also using words like “beautiful”, “gorgeous”, etc.You may think you’re complimenting her but she’ll just think you call all girls “beautiful” or “gorgeous”.Plus, you’re forcing a reaction and what do you seriously expect her to say?“OMG you’re so hot I wanna f*ck your brains out right now baby, what’s your address?!It’s no secret that women love compliments, but too many compliments, especially thrown out too early on will make her think you’re insincere, desperate, are a low value guy and ultimately just want to get in her knickers. Top Tip: Instead of asking questions, make statements with a photo: “mmmmm, I love cats in bread” 7.30am: “Morning (girl’s name) X” 9.05am: “Just got to the office. Hope my boss didn’t notice lol.” pm: “Lunch break YAY! Think I’m gonna go Pret :)” 6pm: “Finished work, going for a drink with some friends.There’s a common misconception flying around that since women love talking about themselves it’s a good idea to ask them lots of questions. No one wants to be bombarded with questions, especially questions that aren’t fun like “do you always go to that club? Wish you were here :)” 9pm: “I’m back home, did you have a good day? Seriously…if you think giving a girl updates on your day is cool, look at it from her perspective.
It also demonstrates you are a low value male because a high value male would never dish out revealing photos of his body without them being earned first.If you’re at the office and she texts you early afternoon, wait until you finish work. Love Panky talked more about picking the right time to text her here. It just ain’t cool and she won’t think you care about her if you don’t get back until the next day.If you do reply to her one day later don’t be surprised if she doesn’t text back because you simply don’t deserve it. It’s ok to continue an ongoing joke you had going when you met her, but if you stick to the same joke for too long, it’ll get old.There’s only one thing you need to remember when texting girls: Always text with a purpose – to arrange a meet up. BONUS: If she’s not texting back, Take This 2 Minute Quiz and see if you still have a chance to get her texting back and on a date. So don’t wait until the next day to text a girl, or the day after that. Because there will never be a meet up if you keep making any one of these 21 mistakes. The 3 day rule is nonsense, in fact, our Dating Metrics survey revealed 89% of women want to be first contacted within 48 hours.