Pay attention at dinner to see how many (if any) stories he tells about fun things he has done with his buddies recently.See how many of his stories in general involve friends, and if the friends are consistent (i.e., can he keep friends?
If the guy you're with sounds like the guy below, then heed the warnings—and get rid of him.1. These guys seem to sweep you off your feet for a whirlwindromance. Does he say he's ultra-protective because he loves you so much? Glass's eleven types of toxic men, ranging from the Jealous Competitor, to the Seductive Manipulating Cheating Liar, to the Socio-Psychopath. If a man tells you he is a certain way, just believe him.The book suggests things like, "Excuse me, I didn't quite catch what you said," or, "What exactly do you mean by that? Repeating part of your sentence before he answers a question, as if he needs time to manufacture an excuse. All these speech patterns are indicative of a toxic man. You're beautiful, smart, talented, young, a mother, a teacher. No woman is too brilliant, too beautiful, too kind or too amazing to avoid these guys if she doesn't know the warning signs. " If his answer is something that seems bizarre, say so. ) If this guy doesn’t have a social life, he will expect you to He orders for you…and you didn’t ask him to I don’t care how many times he has been to the restaurant and how many items on the menu he has tried. In this generation, men do not order for women anymore. Pretty much everyone in which women had very little power. He starts touching you, even though you didn’t give him any signals to Controlling men don’t read your body language, or even listen to you if you say something like “I don’t like to get physical on the first date…at all.” They want what they want.And, once again, they assume everyone else’s preferences and opinions other than their own are just silly, and that they know what’s best.